Oftentimes when things go wrong in life it's easier to blame others rather than take responsibility for your own choices and actions. Perhaps you struggle with finances or a difficult relationship? Life is not perfect and we may not get what we want all the time. Some of us never really get what we want. But the reality is, the only person responsible for the way things are is you!
Yes, perhaps there is karma involved... some past life issues? Perhaps you were raised by abusive parents or have suffered from health problems? Yes, you may even blame the universe or God for your misfortune. But the reality is, you are given these challenges for a reason. It may seem like it's all a big horrible coincidence at times, but sure enough there is a very structured higher power/ energetic synchronicity at play here. And blaming this higher power is not going to fix the mess you're in! Blaming family and friends is not going to help much either.
What you need to realize is that you created this reality with your own thoughts. Yes, there are other energies at play, but in the end your own thoughts are what's causing your grief or joy. The problem is that we are always looking outside of ourselves for answers. And we want to believe that we are not causing our own misery. However, heaven and hell is not a place... it is actually a mind state that one creates. The heaven or hell that you dwell in starts within you. The correct terminology is “Law of Attraction”- your thoughts create your reality. And if you do not take personal responsibility for your life and all the drama that you may be drowning in, then you will not be able to do anything about it. Once you take responsibility and stop blaming others, then you have the power to make positive changes in your life.
Sorry to say, the blame game will get you no where. Perhaps you may invoke a little sympathy and/or pity here and there? Perhaps some gifts or money? A place to stay? But is that really going to solve your dilemma? No, you must look closer. You must look within yourself to truly understand why your life is the way it is and then make an effort to change things that you don't like. In reality, life is treating you the way you treat yourself. Life, and the happiness or misery it brings, is simply a reflection of your own thoughts about yourself and the world around you. Once you change your thoughts everything begins to change.
So take responsibility for your reality, stop blaming others, don't even blame yourself... Just make an effort to structure your thoughts and perceptions in a way that is beneficial to you! Invoke positive change! In the end, no one can save you except yourself! Your life is in your hands! So take responsibility and make it a good life!
Jennie Haiman is a Reiki Master Energy Healer, Co-Founder of Self Saviorz Society California Non-Profit 501(c)(3), Poet, Author and Entertainer with goals to help raise the vibration and consciousness of humanity!